TEACHER GUIDE · John 20:1-18 · RUN SHEET
The Empty Tomb: Whom Are You Seeking?
THE BIG IDEA · SAY IT AT LEAST FIVE TIMES
Whom are you seeking? The risen Jesus comes and calls you by name.
Open with it, bring it back after every section, close with it. By the end they should be able to finish the sentence for you.
BEFORE THIS PASSAGE · DAY 26
John 19:16-30, It Is Finished. Its big idea: The crucified King finished his work; nothing is left undone.
AFTER THIS PASSAGE · DAY 28
John 20:24-31, My Lord and My God. Its big idea: The risen Jesus is Lord and God, written down so you may believe.
Open: Recall last time (John 19): Jesus said “It is finished,” died, and was laid in a tomb. Ask: “Has anyone ever said your name and you knew instantly who it was, before you even turned around?” Take two or three answers. Read John 20:15-16 aloud. Then say the big idea: Whom are you seeking? The risen Jesus comes and calls you by name. Ask one person what stuck from last time.
| SECTION | THE ONE THING | ASK | |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | The Stone Removed, the Cloths Left Behind John 20:1-10 · about 12 min | The tomb is empty, but not the way a robbery would leave it. | Why would folded grave cloths point to something other than a stolen body? |
| 2 | Whom Are You Seeking? John 20:11-16 · about 15 min | Mary is searching for a body. Jesus finds her and calls her by name. | Why do you think Mary recognized Jesus by hearing her name, not by seeing his face? |
| 3 | Go and Tell My Brothers John 20:17-18 · about 10 min | The risen Jesus makes his Father theirs and sends Mary to say so. | What changes for the disciples when Jesus calls them “My brothers” and his Father “your Father”? |
Close (never cut it): Land on who Jesus is, not on a task. He is alive, he came to the one weeping in the dark, and he called her by name. Read v.15 again, “Whom are you seeking?”, then let a moment of quiet sit before you pray.
PROTECT THE ENDING
If section 3 starts late, skip its optional points and discussion, read v.17-18, and go straight to the close.
KIDS SIDE (BACK OF THE HANDOUT)
Story order: 1, 4, 2, 5, 3 (top to bottom) · Feelings: Mary at the tomb sad, Peter running to the tomb worried, Mary hearing Jesus say her name happy, The disciples before Mary came worried · Code: I HAVE SEEN THE LORD · Act it out: One child is Mary, eyes covered and sad. The teacher, as Jesus, asks, “Whom are you seeking?” and then says the child’s name. The child uncovers their eyes and shouts, “Teacher!” Swap so others get a turn.
YOUR NOTES
BIG IDEA: WHOM ARE YOU SEEKING? THE RISEN JESUS COMES AND CALLS YOU BY NAME.RUN SHEET · TEACH FROM THIS PAGE
YOUR NOTES
1. The Stone Removed, the Cloths Left BehindJohn 20:1-10about 12 min
THEIR PAGE, WORD FOR WORD (ANSWERS FILLED IN)
1. The Stone Removed, the Cloths Left Behind John 20:1-10
- Mary comes in the dark and finds the stone moved.
- Two disciples run and find the grave cloths left behind.
- One disciple sees and believes, but he doesn’t yet understand.
Mary went to the tomb while it was still DARK.
The other disciple went in, and he saw and BELIEVED.
DISCUSS
Why would folded grave cloths point to something other than a stolen body?
Why would folded grave cloths point to something other than a stolen body?
The tomb is empty, but not the way a robbery would leave it.
MUST COVER
- v.1-2: Mary assumes theft: “They have taken the Lord.” Nobody expects a resurrection.
- v.6-8: Cloths lie there, the head cloth “rolled up, lying separate.” Robbers don’t unwrap a body.
IF THERE’S TIME
- v.9: “They still did not understand from the Scripture.” Faith began before full understanding.
- The “other disciple” is traditionally John, who wrote this book, telling on himself as a first-hand witness.
Illustration idea: A burglary leaves drawers dumped and doors open. A tidy room with only one thing missing tells a different story.
RUNNING THE DISCUSSION
Listen for:
- “A thief would have grabbed the body and run.”
- “It looks like the body just left the cloths.”
If it drifts: If talk turns to theories about the body, bring it back to v.2 and v.7: what did Mary assume, and what did the men actually see?
TRY SAYING SOMETHING LIKE
They came looking for a body. What they found says he isn’t missing. He’s risen.
Short on time? Skip v.9-10 and the note on who the other disciple is.
Bridge → The men go home, but Mary stays by the tomb, still weeping.
YOUR NOTES
BIG IDEA: WHOM ARE YOU SEEKING? THE RISEN JESUS COMES AND CALLS YOU BY NAME.TEACHER GUIDE · SECTION 1 OF 3
YOUR NOTES
2. Whom Are You Seeking?John 20:11-16about 15 min
THEIR PAGE, WORD FOR WORD (ANSWERS FILLED IN)
2. Whom Are You Seeking? John 20:11-16
- Mary stays and weeps, even with angels in front of her.
- Jesus asks her two questions, and she doesn’t know him.
- One word changes everything: her name.
Mary thought He was the GARDENER.
Jesus said to her, “MARY.”
DISCUSS
Why do you think Mary recognized Jesus by hearing her name, not by seeing his face?
Why do you think Mary recognized Jesus by hearing her name, not by seeing his face?
Mary is searching for a body. Jesus finds her and calls her by name.
MUST COVER
- v.15: “Whom are you seeking?” He asks gently. He already knows the answer is standing there.
- v.16: “Mary.” … “Rabboni!” He is known by his voice speaking her name.
IF THERE’S TIME
- John 10:3 (Jesus earlier called himself the Good Shepherd): “he calls his own sheep by name.” Here it happens.
- Mary gets everything wrong: the body, the gardener, the plan. Jesus comes to her anyway.
Illustration idea: In a crowded airport you can’t pick out a face, then someone calls your name and you know that voice at once.
RUNNING THE DISCUSSION
Listen for:
- “Grief was clouding her eyes.”
- “Your name, in a voice you love, is personal. It cuts through.”
If it drifts: If it becomes stories about grief in general, return to v.16: what one word did Jesus say, and what did Mary do?
TRY SAYING SOMETHING LIKE
She came looking for a dead teacher. The living one found her and said her name.
Short on time? Drop the angels (v.12-13) and go straight to v.15-16.
Bridge → Now that she knows him, Jesus gives her something to carry.
YOUR NOTES
BIG IDEA: WHOM ARE YOU SEEKING? THE RISEN JESUS COMES AND CALLS YOU BY NAME.TEACHER GUIDE · SECTION 2 OF 3
YOUR NOTES
3. Go and Tell My BrothersJohn 20:17-18about 10 min
THEIR PAGE, WORD FOR WORD (ANSWERS FILLED IN)
3. Go and Tell My Brothers John 20:17-18
- Jesus says, “Do not cling to Me,” and sends her on.
- His Father is now called “your Father.”
- Mary becomes the first to announce the risen Lord.
“I am ascending to My Father and YOUR FATHER.”
Mary announced, “I have SEEN THE LORD!”
DISCUSS
What changes for the disciples when Jesus calls them “My brothers” and his Father “your Father”?
What changes for the disciples when Jesus calls them “My brothers” and his Father “your Father”?
The risen Jesus makes his Father theirs and sends Mary to say so.
MUST COVER
- v.17: “My Father and your Father, to My God and your God.” The resurrection makes them family.
- v.18: Mary’s report is short: “I have seen the Lord!” and what he said.
IF THERE’S TIME
- In that day a woman’s testimony counted for little. Inventors of a story would not pick Mary as first witness.
- “Do not cling”: not coldness. He isn’t leaving yet, and there is news to take.
Illustration idea: A child adopted into a family hears, for the first time, “This is your dad too.”
RUNNING THE DISCUSSION
Listen for:
- “They’re not just followers now, they’re family.”
- “Even after they ran away, he calls them brothers.”
If it drifts: If it turns into a debate about ascension, point back to the words “your Father” and ask what Mary had to tell.
TRY SAYING SOMETHING LIKE
He called her name, and then he called them family. That’s who the risen Jesus is.
Short on time? Skip the note on women as witnesses.
Bridge → Mary has seen him, so let’s end where she did: with who he is.
YOUR NOTES
BIG IDEA: WHOM ARE YOU SEEKING? THE RISEN JESUS COMES AND CALLS YOU BY NAME.TEACHER GUIDE · SECTION 3 OF 3
With One Friend, Over Coffee
About 30 minutes · for a friend who is curious, or not sure
RUN ORDER
- Set the scene. Briefly: Jesus was crucified and buried (John 19). Friends were crushed. Then read John 20:1-18 together.
- Look at the tomb. Ask what they notice in v.6-7. The cloths were left, the head cloth rolled up apart. What would a thief have done?
- Look at Mary. She expected nothing but a missing body. Read v.15-16 slowly. Ask why one word, her name, changed everything.
- Name the claim. John isn’t offering a nice feeling. He says the man who died is alive and calls God “your Father.” It is fine for them to find that hard.
- Leave his question. Say: “Jesus asked her, ‘Whom are you seeking?’ I’ll leave that question with you.” Then stop. No pressure, no push to decide.
QUESTIONS YOU MAY HEAR
“Grieving people see what they want. Why trust Mary?”
Fair worry. But Mary wasn’t hoping for this. She assumed theft and took him for the gardener. And the men saw the empty tomb before anyone saw Jesus.
Fair worry. But Mary wasn’t hoping for this. She assumed theft and took him for the gardener. And the men saw the empty tomb before anyone saw Jesus.
“Isn’t it simpler to think someone moved the body?”
That was Mary’s first thought too. But a mover wouldn’t unwrap the body and leave the cloths set aside. John tells it as someone who was there.
That was Mary’s first thought too. But a mover wouldn’t unwrap the body and leave the cloths set aside. John tells it as someone who was there.
“Why did no one recognize him at first?”
John doesn’t fully explain. Tears, dim light, and not expecting him all may be part of it. The point is that he made himself known.
John doesn’t fully explain. Tears, dim light, and not expecting him all may be part of it. The point is that he made himself known.
“Why would it matter to me if it happened?”
If he is alive, he isn’t just a teacher from the past. He calls God “your Father” and still knows people by name.
If he is alive, he isn’t just a teacher from the past. He calls God “your Father” and still knows people by name.
BIG IDEA: WHOM ARE YOU SEEKING? THE RISEN JESUS COMES AND CALLS YOU BY NAME.TEACHER GUIDE · WITH ONE FRIEND
Evergreen Principles
Four standards every week. The rest rotate: each lesson brings the few that fit its passage best.
EVERY LESSON
| THE PRINCIPLE | IF YOU’RE NEW | IF YOU’VE TAUGHT FOR YEARS |
|---|---|---|
| Pray before you prepare Teaching the Bible is spiritual work first (John 15:5). | Pray for your class by name during the week. | Pray for the one person you find hardest to reach. |
| Study the text first Understand the passage yourself before any help. | Read it in two translations; write your own questions first. | Don’t lean on old notes. What did you miss last time? |
| Teach one big idea People remember one sentence, not four points. | Write it in 12 words or fewer before anything else. | Test every story against it. If it doesn’t serve it, cut it. |
| Point to Christ All of Scripture points to him (Luke 24:27). | Ask: what does this show about Jesus? | Show grace as the reason for obedience, not just the rule. |
FOR THIS LESSON
| THE PRINCIPLE | IF YOU’RE NEW | IF YOU’VE TAUGHT FOR YEARS |
|---|---|---|
| Plan for the skeptic and the grieving This passage speaks to doubters (did it happen?) and mourners (Mary weeping). | Have one sentence ready on the grave cloths and one gentle word for anyone in tears. | Let the doubter’s question and the mourner’s tears both lead back to v.15-16. |
| Let silence do its work The turning point is one quiet word: “Mary.” | After reading v.16, pause five seconds before saying anything. | Read v.15 in the close and hold the silence longer than feels comfortable. |
| Let the passage land the way it lands John is showing who Jesus is, not assigning homework. | End on Jesus alive and calling her name, not on a task. | Resist turning “go and tell” into a class assignment. It was Mary’s commission. Keep the focus on him. |
BEFORE CLASS
☐ Read the passage three times
☐ Big idea in one sentence
☐ Opening and close chosen
☐ Know what you’ll cut
☐ Handouts, pens, extra Bibles
☐ Prayed for the class by name
BIG IDEA: WHOM ARE YOU SEEKING? THE RISEN JESUS COMES AND CALLS YOU BY NAME.TEACHER GUIDE · EVERGREEN PRINCIPLES
Openings, Closings & Hard Moments
Pick one opening and one close; rotate so class doesn’t get predictable.
OPENINGS
ask a real-life question
This lesson: “When has someone said your name and you knew the voice instantly?”
use an object
This lesson: Fold a small cloth and set it apart on a table. Ask what a neat, folded cloth says about how someone left.
start in the text
This lesson: Read v.1 alone: “while it was still dark.” Ask what Mary thought she would find.
CLOSINGS
restate the big idea
This lesson: “Whom are you seeking? The risen Jesus came to Mary and called her name.”
allow quiet reflection
This lesson: Read v.15 aloud, then give thirty seconds of silence with Jesus’ question.
call back to the opening
This lesson: “We started with a voice that says your name. That is how Mary knew her Lord was alive.”
WHEN CLASS GETS HARD
Someone recently bereaved is moved to tears at Mary weeping by the tomb.: Don’t rush past it. Point out that Jesus asked “why are you weeping?” gently and never scolded her. Offer to talk afterward.
A skeptic says, “This is just a story grieving followers told.”: Thank them. Point to v.2 (Mary assumed theft) and v.7 (the cloths). Admit faith is still involved, and move on without debating.
Silence after a question: Wait. Then rephrase simpler, or ask them to talk to a neighbor first.
One person dominates: “Thanks. Let’s hear from someone who hasn’t spoken yet.” Talk privately if it continues.
A question you can’t answer: Say so, write it down, bring an answer next week.
A tangent takes over: “Great question. Let’s catch it after class so we can finish the passage.”
BIG IDEA: WHOM ARE YOU SEEKING? THE RISEN JESUS COMES AND CALLS YOU BY NAME.TEACHER GUIDE · OPENINGS, CLOSINGS & HARD MOMENTS
John 20:1-18
The Empty Tomb: Whom Are You Seeking?
Who Do You Say I Am? · Dig Deeper
KEY VERSE
“Jesus said to her, “Mary.” She turned and said to Him in Hebrew, “Rabboni!” (which means “Teacher”).” John 20:16
“Jesus said to her, “Mary.” She turned and said to Him in Hebrew, “Rabboni!” (which means “Teacher”).” John 20:16
THE BIG IDEA
Whom are you seeking? The risen Jesus comes and calls you by name.
Whom are you seeking? The risen Jesus comes and calls you by name.
1. The Stone Removed, the Cloths Left Behind John 20:1-10
- Mary comes in the dark and finds the stone moved.
- Two disciples run and find the grave cloths left behind.
- One disciple sees and believes, but he doesn’t yet understand.
Mary went to the tomb while it was still .
The other disciple went in, and he saw and .
DISCUSS
Why would folded grave cloths point to something other than a stolen body?
Why would folded grave cloths point to something other than a stolen body?
2. Whom Are You Seeking? John 20:11-16
- Mary stays and weeps, even with angels in front of her.
- Jesus asks her two questions, and she doesn’t know him.
- One word changes everything: her name.
Mary thought He was the .
Jesus said to her, “.”
DISCUSS
Why do you think Mary recognized Jesus by hearing her name, not by seeing his face?
Why do you think Mary recognized Jesus by hearing her name, not by seeing his face?
3. Go and Tell My Brothers John 20:17-18
- Jesus says, “Do not cling to Me,” and sends her on.
- His Father is now called “your Father.”
- Mary becomes the first to announce the risen Lord.
“I am ascending to My Father and .”
Mary announced, “I have !”
DISCUSS
What changes for the disciples when Jesus calls them “My brothers” and his Father “your Father”?
What changes for the disciples when Jesus calls them “My brothers” and his Father “your Father”?
Read this week: John 10:1-15 · 1 Corinthians 15:3-8 · Romans 8:14-17
BIG IDEA: WHOM ARE YOU SEEKING? THE RISEN JESUS COMES AND CALLS YOU BY NAME.HANDOUT · ADULT SIDE (KIDS ON THE BACK)
John 20:1-18 · FOR KIDS
The Empty Tomb: Whom Are You Seeking?
Name: ____________________
Big idea: Jesus is alive, and he knows my name.
1. Put the story in order!
Number the boxes.
Mary finds the stone rolled away.
Jesus says her name: “Mary!”
Two friends run to the tomb.
Mary tells the disciples the news.
Mary cries and sees two angels.
2. How did they feel?
Circle a face.
Mary at the tomb
Peter running to the tomb
Mary hearing Jesus say her name
The disciples before Mary came
3. Word search
| F | S | T | E | A | C | H | E | R |
| R | T | V | L | R | A | F | G | G |
| V | O | D | I | P | N | U | A | Y |
| P | N | K | N | P | G | O | R | Y |
| O | E | S | E | C | E | Y | D | P |
| U | B | C | N | M | L | C | E | E |
| S | D | O | V | A | S | C | N | T |
| T | O | M | B | R | Y | D | E | E |
| C | N | B | D | Y | D | N | R | R |
TOMB · STONE · MARY · PETER · ANGELS · GARDENER · LINEN · TEACHER
4. Secret code
1=A · 2=D · 3=E · 4=H · 5=I · 6=L · 7=N · 8=O · 9=R · 10=S · 11=T · 12=V
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5. Draw it!
Draw Mary in the garden turning around when Jesus says her name.
6. Memory verse
“I have seen the Lord!” John 20:18 Say it to a grown-up: ☐ ☐ ☐
Jesus knows my name, and my name is ________.
DIG DEEPERKIDS SIDE · PRINT ON THE BACK OF THE HANDOUT